Life Skills Learning..next is also learning (what a title)

today i manage to learn how to use chopsticks for dining so that I won't feel a bit awkward when having curry mee at any kopitiam. Hehe... But this video very helpful for a beginner like me. Whoever out there wanna learn how to use chopsticks for your chinese style meal..I recommend you to watch this: Dining Etiquette: How To Use Chopsticks Then..today I also read about a 45 years old father who shared his wedding reception with his son who is 22 years old. Maybe it's a normal thing happens everywhere but I didn't expect that the father's wife is younger than his son's wife...meaning that the mother in law is definitely younger than daughter in law..and at her age being called "Mom" by a 23 years old daughter in law. And the father's ex-wife also come for 'Tepung tawar'. Hehe..so sporting...! Heh..!Why I'm so busy body here. That is their problem and none of mine. Anyway just wishing them Selamat Pengantin Baru and hopefully it will last forever!

About Facebook..and things stuck in my mind..

What a beautiful day today. I think I still deserve another few hours sleep since last night I went to bed quite late, that was around 1.30 a.m. Why I can stay up till that late? That was because I was so obsessed with my new hobby, Facebook ~ing. I think Facebook is now domineering the networking tools compared to existing networking tools such as Friendster, Tagged, Myspace and etc. Anyone disagree or having objection with my statement, please put a comment. Previously I did not much into this until I uploaded a few photos, adding more friends, actively updating status, took the provided quizzes and commenting others’ photos and so many things which I think more than I can mention here. I think I’ve become an addict to Facebook, even after work whenever I reached home, I’ll make sure my notebook is on until the next morning where I’ll go out for work. Then in the office, the second thing I’ll do after checking mailbox, I’ll log in to Facebook. Arghh! I can’t live without Facebook! Can somebody explain to me why this happen? Am I the only one facing this scenario in my everyday’s life? Even during weekend I will surely spare some time and my hardworking notebook will be on for 24 hours. Now, I less remember my late Mom and I less doing prayer for her which previously everyday I’ll spend at least 15-20 minutes for Qur’an reciting but for Facebook I can sit down still for 2-3 hours? Allah please forgive me for what I’ve done. This thing really want to change my life. I think my new goal is now to reduce my time loitering and hooking with facebook. Haha…is that the right word? I want to spend more time with my family, visitng friends or relatives, reciting Qur’an for dear Ma and so forth. If you love me my dear friend, please support me…I really need and will be thankful to all of you for that. P.s: I had a slurpiuos Nasi Kerabu for my breakfasting ..my dearly hubby bought for me according to Nor-C’s suggestion. This stall located in Puchong Perdana, opposite Shell (hey..I didn’t notice that it is a SHELL petrol station. Last time I went there it was a ProJet petrol station. Hahaha..I was so ignorant about this.And I also hope it was the right stall as she referred to because so many stalls selling Nasi Kerabu.

P.s: I also did a ‘jejak kasih’ with my labouring partner..Norni...and I got her mail address from Google! Her daughter Adeline, borned on the same day with my son, Adam Izz. That was on 21st August 2007. Lost contact with her almost one year..and now we’re emailing each other! Kudos to the internet. However I still insist for her Facebook ID..hahaha.

Norni & Baby Lina

13th May

Hey..13th May always seems scary to me recalling of the fights happened in 1959. But I thankful God to let us treasure harmony and peace in our country (except in Perak!) I don’t really favor on every single thing that happens in Perak. I didn’t know why butI guessed these people are not thankful for what they have enjoyed in the previous 52 years of independence. Our Next Future Leader?

We always prohibit our kids not to climb up on the table but alas what is the man in this picture trying to prove? I am really sick of these so called opponents leader. Voted given but they failed to show a good example and commitment. Driving luxury cars and some of local’s right also torn-off. (I refer to land matter..well need not mention in details I guessed). I admit I didn’t go out for voting due to whole family down with fever and flu and I am writing this from my own point of view. Maybe many of you will get angry with my writing but please note that I am not trying to influence anyone. Just my 2 cents points to share with you if you are willing to.

International Nurse Day – Memory of Beloved Ma

Happy Nurse Day to all nurses in Malaysia and all over the world. Happy Nurse day to my late mom who was a great nurse I ever known. Missed you a lot..Ma. On this day and for those difficult days I’ve been through and upcoming. Ma started her career as Assistant Nurse in year 1974 if I am not mistaken. But each time she celebrated her career anniversary, we just manage to wish her Happy Anniversary! That time all of us were toddlers then growing up to teens and then as adults. But even after I manage to get a job, ignorance still my best friend and I forgot her career and I didn’t even manage to get her any present. How I regret that. Please forgive me, Ma. But as long as I’ve been her daughter, I noticed Ma was a talkative, high confidence and good in making decision. But those traits were neither inherited by me! Maybe my 4th siblings who my best buddy had got them and that was so obvious that she was a prefect in a boarding school (ingat senang nak jadi prefect kat boarding school?) and now I know lucky fairy on her side to take care of her. Now back to Ma’s story. She was a charitable person. She loves to help those in needs. No matter how broke she was that time but she will always favor others. But one of her attitude that I am a bit sick of it that she always worry about other’s feeling but always ignore about her oneself feeling. I missed her cutting my fingernails, I missed her crab curry dish, I missed all of her cooking and I missed everything about her before I got married. That was a wonderful time I treasure with her. But all that we did slowly fades once I got married and immediately having a baby. Then I started to get angry with Ma, disagree with Ma and every negative side I had on Ma. Until now I’m still thinking about it but still I unanswered. Ma opt for early retirement at age of 52 due to her illness. Cramps, cold feet in every morning, cough, stomach pain and etc. But I thought that was normal for pre-menopause syndrome. I didn’t have time to look after Ma but luckily my sister got a job in Kelantan and she was fully responsible to take care of Ma. Thanks very much to you sis! It wasn’t long enough for Ma to enjoy her retirement as she’s having too many things to think of. About her house, her children and all the problems created by her children (youngest to eldest) inclusive of her husband who was supposed to be Man of the House but the role also went to Ma.But Allah loves Ma very much. Instead to think of many problems…Ma left us peacefully on 26th October 2009 with only 2 grand children. Maybe next baton will be passed to the real Man of the House?

Busiest and Frustrated Day

Today I woke up really late! Almost 7.00 a.m. where normally at this time I already on my way to work! After making sure Erry went to school with daddy, then I managed to make myself ready for work. Luckily Dadam sleeping safen sound. At 8.00a.m headed to the office praying that no accident alongside LDP so that I can reach the office before 9.00a.m.or else they gonna cut my one hour pay for May!Hehe...i reached office around 8.52..haha..so good.But..definitely Ican't go back home on time..need to cover my working hour..sigh! Then aiyyah..got pending task waiting from my lady PM. Ohh..how I miss Nelson very much! I wish I can work with him 4eva..but life is like that..no happy ending one. Then I went back home at 6.15 p.m. No traffic jam..traffic was smooth. I reached Dadam's day care around 7+ pm. Before going to bed I murmured about my oversize baju kurung pesak gantung. Then hubby reminded me that I used to ask my baju kurung to be sewn one inch xtra than sample size. "Eh..hello!! That was mid last year, okie?" End of last year and This year I'm back to normal size already." Now I know why my baju kurung kept oversizing. A bit frustrated. I plan to send for alteration at this tailor shop that I always peep on after work from my carpark area. Hopefully this will be the right tailor for me. I pray for myself.

A wish to a dear lady

I feel a bit insulted by this Bukit Hitam Customer Service lady. I went there to collect mynew residential sticker. Of course we already acknowledged that an owner iseligible forone car sticker. But upon initialing the checklist, I saw one owner collected two stickers. Then I nicely asked this lady, which the conversation was like this:

Me: Miss, how come this owner collected 2 stickers ya?

That Lady: Owh..they bought the stickerslah..

Me: Arh..can buy ah..?

That Lady: Yes. You want to buy kah?

Me: Erm...how much does the sticker costs?

That Lady: Oo..Ten thousand ringgit (with a teasing smile )..You want?

Me: Ow...that goes for car park one...then nvm...thanks! (Deep inside my heart was really hurt with her words).

To that dear lady...thanks for reminding me that I have the unwealthy alias poor alias no money look but careful with your words as it will harm yourself sooner or later. How I you have the bad luck just after u insulted me. Your car get hit, then your bf asking for a break..then you can also become poor because have just been snatched like me previously..I really hate you for your word and I wish you will suffer till the whole year coming until you come and asking for forgiveness from me.